I was chatting to a very good mate of mine a few weeks ago on Messenger, who glumly told me that a girl he worked with that he quite fancied (and he thought quite fancied him) turned out to have a boyfriend. He thought she fancied him because she was always talking to him but apparently “she was just genuinely a nice person”.
Of course I had to just burst out laughing because I thought it was so typical of my friend to be so clueless about women and how they act. (And if his thinking really is typical of most men, this means that men only really bother talking to someone if they’re actually interested in them.)
My brother has a saying that “friends are just women you haven’t shagged yet”, which shows that my brother sits firmly in the camp of men who can’t have platonic relationships with women! This contradicts my theory that men who have sisters are actually more likely to have platonic relationships with women since they understand and appreciate women as they are (my friend above comes from a family of four boys!).
I dare say that every woman I know has many male friends for whom she feels no attraction at all, though I would guess that quite a number of men would struggle to say that they had only platonic feelings for their female friends. I wonder if it’s a biology thing. Any thoughts?
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